The American Way of Death: Why We Need to Change

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The American funeral is a strange and often surreal experience. Everything from the rituals, to the language used, to the appearance of funeral homes themselves seems designed to capture something Victorian and macabre. But perhaps most disturbing of all is how much planning and expense goes into something that no one looking forward to death actually wants. During our own research for this article, we found that many sources related to the topic—not just the financial costs but also the emotional toll—were extremely upsetting. Although we would not suggest that anyone reading this desensitize themselves in preparation for their final goodbyes, it is unfortunate that some serious topics are so confronting. Fortunately, there’s plenty of inspiring stories about people who have decided against standard COA services, instead opting for green burial or home funerals. Below you will find everything you need to know about choosing a different type of end-of-life care – including inspiration from real people who have made these choices already.

What is a green burial?

In layman’s terms, “green” burials are burials that are designed to leave as little impact on the environment as possible. Some of the most important considerations are the use of biodegradable caskets, shrouds instead of coffins, and the use of natural burial grounds. A natural burial ground is a space where bodies are left to decompose naturally, without any chemical enhancements. Some natural burial grounds have been used for centuries, with new bodies interred above old remains. Natural caskets are either made from sustainable wood or bamboo. The latter, in particular, is a fast-growing plant that can be harvested without damaging the surrounding ecology. Likewise, all shrouds and clothing used for green burials are made from natural fibers such as cotton.

Why might you choose a green burial?

Environmentalists, conservationists, naturalists, and even religious groups may choose to embrace green burial. The choice may also be made by people who do not wish to burden their relatives with the expense of a more traditional funeral. It may also be the best choice for people who want to leave a minimal carbon footprint on the world.

DIY or “natural” burials

If the price of a green burial is prohibitive, people may wish to consider DIY burials. In natural burials, all seeds, flowers, and pesticides used around the body must be organic. However, DIY burials can be less strict, as long as the chemicals used are biodegradable. People who choose DIY burials over green burials often require less specific and costly equipment. This needs to be considered, especially if the family has to cover the cost of the funeral. While green burials will likely cost thousands of dollars, DIY burials are likely to be hundreds.

Organically certified cemeteries

Though it can seem morbid, it’s worth checking out the options available for burial. Some cemeteries have been certified as organic, making them more environmentally friendly. Organic cemeteries will usually use biodegradable caskets, natural burial grounds, and a limited range of pesticides. Organic cemeteries will almost always require you to purchase a pre-owned plot. Organic cemeteries are a great option if you want to be environmentally friendly, but they will probably come at a higher price.

Conclusion

The American funeral is a strange and often surreal experience. Everything from the rituals, to the language used, to the appearance of funeral homes themselves seems designed to capture something Victorian and macabre. However, the morbidity of American death culture is perhaps most disturbing when one considers the cost. During our own research for this article, we found that many sources related to the topic—not just the financial costs but also the emotional toll—were extremely upsetting. Fortunately, there’s plenty of inspiring stories about people who have decided against standard COA services, instead opting for green burial or home funerals. If you’re keen to make your final farewells more environmentally friendly, it’s never too early to start planning.